# Surendra Pal Singh Pawar v. Smt. Bala

- **Citation:** (2016) 5 ILRA 471
- **Court:** High Court of Judicature at Allahabad
- **Decided:** 2016-05-18
- **Bench:** Surya Prakash Kesarwani
- **Source:** https://unisonlegal.in/judgment/allahabad-high-court/surendra-pal-singh-pawar-v-smt-bala-43856
- **Pages:** 6

## Headnote

of 2009 under Section 13 of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955

In my view, the demand of the defendant-respondent wife to live with her husband was not an
unreasonable demand rather it was her right. The plaintiff-appellant could not lead any evidence to prove that
the defendant respondent was guilty of cruelty. Under the circumstances, I do not find any good reason to
interfere with the impugned judgment.

Held: Para-

Case Law discussed:
Samar Ghosh vs Jaya Ghosh, (2007) 4 SCC 511,
K. Srinivas Rao v. D.A. Deepa, (2013) 5 SCC 226,
Darshan Gupta Vs. Radhika Gupta (2013) 9 SCC .
Malathi Ravi Vs. B.V. Ravi, (2014) 7 SCC 640,
Neelam Kumar Vs. Daya Ran (2001)13 SCC 298 ,
Gurubux Singh Vs. Harwinder Kaur (2010)14 SCC 301

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Therefore, both the courts below had decided the original suit and appeal against plaintiffappellant by correct and acceptable judgment. Their judgments are confirmed.

12. Accordingly, this appeal is dismissed with cost.
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APPELLATE JURISDICTION
CIVIL SIDE
DATED: ALLAHABAD 18.5.2016

BEFORE

THE HON'BLE SURYA PRAKASH KESARWANI, J.

First Appeal No.- 222 Of 2016

Surendra Pal Singh Pawar ...Appellant
Versus
Smt. Bala ...Respondent

Counsel for the Appellant:
Santosh Kumar Srivastava, Alka Srivastava

Counsel for the Respondent:
N.A

This First Appeal has been filed challenging the Judgement dated 16.4.2016 and decree dated 30.4.2016
passed by the Court of Additional District and Sessions Judge/Fast Track Court No.2, Baghpat, in case No.360
of 2009 under Section 13 of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955

In my view, the demand of the defendant-respondent wife to live with her husband was not an
unreasonable demand rather it was her right. The plaintiff-appellant could not lead any evidence to prove that
the defendant respondent was guilty of cruelty. Under the circumstances, I do not find any good reason to
interfere with the impugned judgment.

Held: Para-

Case Law discussed:
Samar Ghosh vs Jaya Ghosh, (2007) 4 SCC 511,
K. Srinivas Rao v. D.A. Deepa, (2013) 5 SCC 226,
Darshan Gupta Vs. Radhika Gupta (2013) 9 SCC .
Malathi Ravi Vs. B.V. Ravi, (2014) 7 SCC 640,
Neelam Kumar Vs. Daya Ran (2001)13 SCC 298 ,
Gurubux Singh Vs. Harwinder Kaur (2010)14 SCC 301

(Delivered by Hon'ble Surya Prakash Kesarwani, J.)

1. Heard Sri Santosh Kumar Srivastava, learned counsel for the appellant.
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2. This First Appeal has been filed challenging the Judgement dated 16.4.2016 and decree
dated 30.4.2016 passed by the Court of Additional District and Sessions Judge/Fast Track Court
No.2, Baghpat, in case No.360 of 2009 under Section 13 of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955
(hereinafter referred to as "the Act").

3. Learned counsel for the appellant submits that the court below has committed a manifest
error of law and fact to dismiss the divorce petition even though the appellant has established that
the defendant-respondent has committed cruelty and thus made out a ground for divorce under
Section 13(1) (i-a)/(i-b) of the Act.

4. In support of his submission he refers to the pleadings made in paragraph No. 4 and 5 of
the plaint, a copy of which has been filed as Annexure No.-1. He further submits that defendantrespondent is living separately since the year 1977 without any allegation against him and out of
her own sweet will which amounts to cruelty. He, therefore, submits that in view of these facts the
court below has committed a manifest error of law in not granting the decree for divorce and,
therefore, the impugned judgment and decree deserves to be set aside.
5. I have carefully considered the submissions of learned counsel for the appellant and
perused the record.

6. Briefly stated the facts of the present case are that plaintiff-appellant was married with
the defendant-respondent in the year 1966 when the plaintiff-appellant was unemployed. In the
year 1971 the plaintiff-appellant was appointed as a Police Constable. It is alleged in the paragraph
No. 4 of the plaint that after the plaintiff-appellant was appointed as Police Constable, the
defendant-respondent and her family members started pressing the plaintiff-appellant to keep her
with him at the place of his posting as she wants to live with him. This request of the defendantrespondent was refused by the plaintiff-appellant (Husband). According to the plaintiff-appellant,
she left his home in August 1977, while according to the defendant-respondent (wife), she was
kicked out from her husband's home. There is no pleading in the plaint giving any detail of efforts
made by the plaintiff-appellant to bring back home the defendant-respondent (wife) after August
1977 till 2009. As per own case of the plaintiff-appellant, he made an effort to bring back his wife
in the year 2009 before instituting the suit for divorce. Thus, according to the plaintiff-appellant he
made an effort after 32 years which is not even supported by any pleadings in the plaint.
Undisputedly, there was no complaint of the plaintiff-appellant against defendant-respondent at
least till the year 1971. He lived with her since the date of marriage in year 1966 till the year 1977.
No evidence of cruelty was led by the plaintiff-appellant before the court below except the sole
allegation that she left the house. On the contrary, serious allegations were made by the defendantrespondent against the plaintiff-appellant as noted in the impugned judgment which were also
proved by her in her evidence.

7. The element of cruelty could not be proved at all by the plaintiff-appellant.

8. Under Section 13(1) (i-a) of the Act marriage can be dissolved by a decree of divorce on
petition presented either by the husband or the wife on the ground that the other party has, after
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solemnization of marriage treated him/her with cruelty. It has been settled by Hon'ble Supreme
Court in large number of decisions that the term "cruelty" means where the spouse has so treated
the other and manifested such feelings towards her or him so as to cause in her or his mind
reasonable apprehension that it will be harmful or injurious to live with other spouse. Cruelty may
be physical or mental. Mental cruelty will have to be judged after applying mind on the facts of
each case. No uniform standard can be laid down. In the case of Samar Ghosh vs Jaya Ghosh,
(2007) 4 SCC 511, Hon'ble Supreme Court held as under:

"No uniform standard can ever be laid down for guidance, yet we deem it
appropriate to enumerate some instances of human behaviour which may be relevant in dealing
with the cases of 'mental cruelty'. The instances indicated in the succeeding paragraphs are only
illustrative and not exhaustive.

(i) On consideration of complete matrimonial life of the parties, acute mental pain,
agony and suffering as would not make possible for the parties to live with each other could come
within the broad parameters of mental cruelty.

(ii) On comprehensive appraisal of the entire matrimonial life of the parties, it
becomes abundantly clear that situation is such that the wronged party cannot reasonably be asked
to put up with such conduct and continue to live with other party.

(iii) Mere coldness or lack of affection cannot amount to cruelty, frequent rudeness
of language, petulance of manner, indifference and neglect may reach such a degree that it makes
the married life for the other spouse absolutely intolerable.

(iv) Mental cruelty is a state of mind. The feeling of deep anguish, disappointment,
frustration in one spouse caused by the conduct of other for a long time may lead to mental cruelty.
(v) A sustained course of abusive and humiliating treatment calculated to torture,
discommode or render miserable life of the spouse.

(vi) Sustained unjustifiable conduct and behaviour of one spouse actually affecting
physical and mental health of the other spouse. The treatment complained of and the resultant
danger or apprehension must be very grave, substantial and weighty.

(vii) Sustained reprehensible conduct, studied neglect, indifference or total
departure from the normal standard of conjugal kindness causing injury to mental health or
deriving sadistic pleasure can also amount to mental cruelty.

(viii) The conduct must be much more than jealousy, selfishness, possessiveness,
which causes unhappiness and dissatisfaction and emotional upset may not be a ground for grant
of divorce on the ground of mental cruelty.
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(ix) Mere trivial irritations, quarrels, normal wear and tear of the married life
which happens in day to day life would not be adequate for grant of divorce on the ground of
mental cruelty.

(x) The married life should be reviewed as a whole and a few isolated instances
over a period of years will not amount to cruelty. The ill-conduct must be persistent for a fairly
lengthy period, where the relationship has deteriorated to an extent that because of the acts and
behaviour of a spouse, the wronged party finds it extremely difficult to live with the other party any
longer, may amount to mental cruelty.

(xi) If a husband submits himself for an operation of sterilization without medical
reasons and without the consent or knowledge of his wife and similarly if the wife undergoes
vasectomy or abortion without medical reason or without the consent or knowledge of her
husband, such an act of the spouse may lead to mental cruelty.

(xii) Unilateral decision of refusal to have intercourse for considerable period
without there being any physical incapacity or valid reason may amount to mental cruelty.

(xiii) Unilateral decision of either husband or wife after marriage not to have child
from the marriage may amount to cruelty.

(xiv) Where there has been a long period of continuous separation, it may fairly be
concluded that the matrimonial bond is beyond repair. The marriage becomes a fiction though
supported by a legal tie. By refusing to sever that tie, the law in such cases, does not serve the
sanctity of marriage; on the contrary, it shows scant regard for the feelings and emotions of the
parties. In such like situations, it may lead to mental cruelty."

9. In the case of K. Srinivas Rao v. D.A. Deepa, (2013) 5 SCC 226 (para 16), Hon'ble
Supreme Court observed that to the instances illustrative of mental cruelty noted in Samar Ghosh
(supra) few more instances may be added namely, making unfounded indecent defamatory
allegations against the spouse or his or her relatives in the pleadings, filing of complaints or issuing
notices or news items which may have adverse impact on the business prospect or the job of the
spouse and filing repeated false complaints and cases in the court against the spouse would also
amount to cause mental cruelty to the other spouse.

10. In the case of Darshan Gupta Vs. Radhika Gupta (2013) 9 SCC 1(Para 46), Hon'ble
Supreme Court observed that the grounds on which divorce can be sought under Section 13(1) of
the Act would reveal that the same are grounds based on the 'fault' of the party against whom
dissolution of marriage is sought. In matrimonial jurisprudence, such provisions are founded on the
''matrimonial offence theory' or the ''fault theory'. Under this jurisprudential principle, it is only
on the ground of an opponent's fault, that a party may approach a Court for seeking annulment of
his/her matrimonial alliance. In other words, if either of the parties is guilty of committing a
matrimonial offence, the aggrieved party alone is entitled to divorce. The party seeking divorce
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under the "matrimonial offence theory" / the "fault theory" must be innocent. A party suffering
"guilt" or "fault" disentitles himself/herself from consideration. Illustratively, desertion for a
specified continuous period, is one of the grounds for annulment of marriage. But the aforesaid
ground for annulment is available only, if the desertion is on account of the fault of the opposite
party, and not fault of the party who has approached the Court. Therefore, if a husband's act of
cruelty, compels a wife to leave her matrimonial home, whereupon, she remains away from the
husband for the stipulated duration, it would not be open for a husband to seek dissolution of
marriage, on the ground of desertion as happened in the present set of facts. The reason being, that
it is the husband himself who was at fault, and not the wife.

11. In the case of Malathi Ravi Vs. B.V. Ravi, (2014) 7 SCC 640 (para 42), Hon'ble
Supreme Court observed that mental cruelty and its effect cannot be stated with arithmetical
exactitude. It varies from individual to individual, from society to society and also depends on the
status of the persons. What would be a mental cruelty in the life of two individuals belonging to
particular strata of the society may not amount to mental cruelty in respect of another couple
belonging to a different stratum of society. The agonized feeling or for that matter a sense of
disappointment can take place by certain acts causing a grievous dent at the mental level. The
inference has to be drawn from the attending circumstances.

12. Adverting to the present set of facts, I find that the appellant-husband compelled the
defendant-respondent (wife) to leave her matrimonial house in August 1977 and has never
attempted to bring her back to the matrimonial house except allegedly few days before instituting
the petition for divorce in the year 2009.

13. Thus, applying the fault theory as propounded by Hon'ble Supreme Court in the case of
Darshan Gupta (supra), I find no error in the impugned judgment inasmuch as the appellantplaintiff himself was at fault and, therefore he can not seek divorce on the ground of cruelty.

14. At this point it is also relevant to note that it is own case of the appellant-plaintiff as
emerging from the plaint that the respondent-defendant (wife) was insisting to live with him at the
place of posting. In my view, the demand of the defendant-respondent wife to live with her
husband was not an unreasonable demand rather it was her right. The plaintiff-appellant could not
lead any evidence to prove that the defendant respondent was guilty of cruelty. Under the
circumstances, I do not find any good reason to interfere with the impugned judgment.

15. It is settled law that burden lies on the party to prove who alleges cruelty vide Neelam
Kumar Vs. Daya Ran (2001)13 SCC 298 (para 13), Gurubux Singh Vs. Harwinder Kaur
(2010)14 SCC 301 (Para 12 and 14). It is also settled law that parties to a case can not travel
beyond pleadings.

16. The findings recorded in the impugned judgment are based on consideration of relevant
pleadings and evidences. The appeal is totally devoid of merit and, therefore, does not even
deserves admission.
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17. In view of the above discussion, this appeal is dismissed with cost of Rs.10,000/- which
the plaintiff-appellant shall pay to the defendant-respondent within 30 days from today.
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APPELLATE JURISDICTION
CRIMINAL SIDE
DATED: ALLAHABAD 13.05.2016

BEFORE

THE HON'BLE ARVIND KUMAR TRIPATHI, J.
THE HON'BLE ARVIND KUMAR MISHRA-I, J.

Criminal Appeal No.- 245 Of 2006

Janaki Prasad & Ors. ...Appellants
Versus
State Of U.P. ...Respondent

Counsel for the Appellants:
Brij Raj, K.S. Misra, S.V. Singh, Sushil Dubey, U.C. Mishra

Counsel for the Respondent:
G.A.
.................................
Conviction Set Aside - Eyewitness Testimony Unreliable - Appellants convicted by Special Judge
(SC/ST Act), Kannauj under Sections 302/34 IPC and Section 3(2)(V) SC/ST Act for murder of Mahadev on
22.01.2000; prosecution case rested on two eyewitnesses (PW-1 Gendawati, mother of deceased, and PW-2
Rajbeti, daughter of deceased) whose versions were found materially contradictory and mutually destructive
- PW-1 stated incident was witnessed by Rajbeti and Ashok as well, whereas PW-2 claimed she alone
witnessed it and further disclosed in cross-examination that she reached the spot only the next morning and
that FIR was lodged only after preparation of inquest report; prosecution could not be depended upon solely
on the interested testimony of such unreliable witnesses. (Paras 1-3, 15-17)
FIR Ante-timed - Investigation Defective - No blood stains found at alleged place of occurrence despite
multiple pellet wounds on chest of deceased; alleged motive (prior FIR by deceased against Janaki Prasad)
not proved on record; post-mortem report not duly proved as Pharmacist PW-5 was unfamiliar with
handwriting/signature of the examining doctor Dr. B.G. Tiwari; unexplained delay of about 8 hours between
police arrival at spot and preparation of inquest report; changes in GD entries made without initials; copy of
FIR dispatched to court only on 27.01.2000 despite registration on 22.01.2000 - all circumstances
cumulatively established ante-timing of FIR and false implication of appellants on account of enmity; findings
of Trial Court held perverse. (Paras 18-35)

Appeal Allowed - Appellants Acquitted

Case Law Discussed:
1. Sharad Birdhichand Sarda v. State of Maharashtra, AIR 1984 SC 1622
2. State of U.P. v. Ram Sagar Yadav, AIR 1985 SC 416
3. Rameshwar v. State of Rajasthan, AIR 1952 SC 54

(Delivered by Hon'ble Arvind Kumar Mishra-I, J.)